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which may prevent them from performing some of the duties of a caregiver. Lifting, turning, and assisting someone even in a limited capacity can take a toll on the caregiver. That being said, there are positive aspects to consider if becoming a caregiver? Here are a few:
- Personal satisfaction that you are helping someone in need;
- Learning a new skill-set that will be invaluable during your life;
- Not a desk job--physically active;
- Mentally challenging;
- Generally, not a boring job since the duties of a caregiver may change day to day or hour to hour;
- Expensive wardrobe not necessary;
- Most of the time, once you learn the routine, you are on your own. So if you like working alone with very little supervision, this is ideal;
- The client, patient, or relative you are caring for will appreciate being able to remain in their home;
- A chance to be creative and funny to lighten the overall mood at times.
- A new friendship blossoms.
- Caregivers not only give but they become better listeners.
Let's talk now about the negative features in becoming a caregiver. Of course, I have already mentioned the physical expectations and limits of a caregiver. Here are a few more:
- Not every person you care for will be cooperative. Remember that they may be in pain...that's why you are there;
- Overload. Sometimes, the caregiver is the only one picking up the responsibilities of care for the person;
- Or, not all caregivers are on the same page when taking care of the same person. May result in unnecessary mistakes;
- Medical emergencies;
- Inability to communicate to the person having authority or the Power of Attorney that there is a problem that may need immediate attention;
- Long hours;
- Caring for the person's hygiene and toileting issues. Not everyone is comfortable with this;
- Emotionally demanding situations. Patience is needed.
As you can see, like any profession, there are pros and cons. Some caregivers are thrust into the role with little or no notice. If that has happened to you, do not panic. Take a deep breath and organize as much as possible. Prioritize. I have written a short-read Kindle book with seven major tips to keep you sane. You will see this on the sidebar. Also, watch You-Tube learning videos. There are many videos that will show you how to lift without hurting yourself or the person you are caring for.
When push comes to shove, most people can act as a caregiver. You can learn the skills needed to be a caregiver. However, to be a good caregiver, one that really cares, it takes a special person. It is vital that the caregiver connects with her patient, client, or relative. Here is where the golden rule enters the picture. Always treat your person of care with dignity and respect. You may be in their same position some day. How would you want to be treated? Loving care with a kind spirit should be evident in your tone and manner. Being a good caregiver also takes a lot of patience.
So, do you think you can be a caregiver? Weigh the positive and negative aspects. If you have to be a caregiver for a short time, remember to prioritize and organize. If you are in it for the long haul, then by all means read and ask questions. Check out the caregiver agencies in your area. Remember, with experience, you too will learn the tricks of the trade and the joy in being a good caregiver.